The following was posted on Facebook. As the new school year is approaching, it offers a valuable lesson for us all. What we tell ourselves and what we tell others creates the way we feel and impacts how we perform. And more so, we are always more likely to believe the negative than the positive. So you can be sure that the insults will stick, so the compliments are that much more necessary. What this mother did is not just a nice and sweet thing. She is trying to remind her son, with everything he does in school, that is he so loved and so important. They are messages of empowerment and reminders that he will constantly see, day in and day out. Jewish Mysticism teaches that writing is an act of creation–that when we write something we give it permanence and through that, we create new realities. This mother, through her act of writing on her son’s pencils, the very instruments that he will be writing with, is showing him who he is and what he is capable of and is helping make that his reality…
“Today I was running low on pencils so I asked all of my kids to pull out any of my pencils that they had in their desks. I had one student ask me if he could keep his pencils that his mom gave him for school. Of course, I said yes. He then said, “well, I guess I’ll give you a few so my classmates can have them too.” I thought nothing of it and took the pencils that he handed me. When I was sharpening them, I noticed writing on a few of them. I then realized that my student’s mother took the time to write on his pencils. I asked him if he would mind showing me the rest of them. What I read melted my heart:
– You are so talented.
– This will be a great year.
– You are creative.
– You are phenomenal.
– Never give up.
– You can do this.
– You are knowledgeable.
– You are a math whiz.
– You are intelligent.
– Proud of you everyday.
– I love you.
– You have a brilliant mind.
– You are wonderful.
– You are a problem solver.
– Follow your dreams.
– You are perfect.
– I am proud of you.
– You will change the world.
– You are amazing.
– You are the best.
– You are important.
This probably took his mom a few minutes to do yet it lit up his whole day at school. He wasn’t embarrassed that his mom wrote on his pencils. Thanks to his mom, he was reminded of his self worth and wanted to share the same feeling with his classmates. THESE are the things that we should be reminding our kids (both parents AND teachers). Imagine the look on a child’s face when they are reminded that they are important, talented, loved, knowledgeable and so much more. Help them know that someone believes in them and is proud of them in everything they do. Even if you think it is cheesy or you don’t have enough time or that you will have little impact, remember that you may be the only one telling and reminding them these things and EVERY kid needs to know their value. This is why I teach. ❤️”
Source: Facebook Page of Amanda Cox
